“And forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.” Lord’s Prayer, Fifth Petition
Forgiveness does not come easy for me. “Do unto others worse than they have done to you” is more my motto.
But this was not the way of Jesus. Jesus turned the other cheek, even when Roman soldiers were beating and mocking Him. And while they were driving sharp nails into His hands and feet, Jesus prayed “Father forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” When Jesus hung there on the cross, it was not those sharp nails that pinned Him there; NO, it was my sin, and yours, that held Him there.
I once attended a Good Friday service, where the pastor had a wooden cross, a hammer, and some nails. He invited the congregation forward and encouraged each person to take a nail and hammer it into the cross as a reminder of the fact that it was my sin that took Jesus to the cross. And as this was happening, he said the words, “Father forgive them”. It was a genuinely powerful demonstration of the love and forgiveness of our Saviour. Jesus freely and willingly forgave me for sending Him to the cross and having to suffer hell in my place. Knowing this wondrous fact, knowing that my enormous and incalculable debt to God has been paid, how then can I not forgive those who do me wrong? Through the boundless forgiveness of Christ, we are enabled to forgive others.
Lord have mercy, Christ have mercy, Lord have mercy. Amen.